This is a thing I've observed very lately.....that most of my frnds are either of dominant personality or are talkative in general. I don't actually know if this all is by default or just of the way I am. I love to listen, I listen to evryone just don't talk enough....may be thts the reason I've never had a fight or even an altercation with anyone since as long back as i remember....off-the sporting feild tht is(i'm quite different when i'm playing!)...I generally stay subdued and let my peers take the lead. And why don't I take the initiative?...who knows!? My usual answer to any1 is "I don't know...as u wish!". Be it my mother asking 'wht should i make for dinner 2day?' or my friends asking 'where to go out 2day?' or a plain 'wht'll you have?' at a restaurant,...i'm never very particular about anything...compromise with most of the things, not at all demanding...now, I know all that may be sounding very meek....but that's the way I am :D. This is another one of my inconsistencies....I don't like to force my authority over anyone...even with those who i have a right on, who're close to me, my best of friends(may be coz of my insecurity).But with my family, I act like crazy...don't listen 2 mom....boss over my bro....I love thm a lot from within ....but then why do I act so mean with them?....do I need to answer this?...you get the point..right?
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Well, here is what I'd say:
a) "that most of my frnds are either of dominant personality or are talkative in general."
--I know who you are talking about! :P :D
b) "My usual answer to any1 is "I don't know...as u wish!"."
--The easy way out! :P Well, even I do this, but only when I am least bothered about such things. Perhaps the same goes with you, you tend to prioritize things differently and find it uselss to talk about things like dinner, restaurants. It is also coz u are more adjusting. :)
c)"now, I know all that may be sounding very meek..."
--It doesn't. Be proud of it.
d)"I don't like to force my authority over anyone...even with those who i have a right on, who're close to me, my best of friends(may be coz of my insecurity)."
-- May be. But remember that if you do force your authority on them (To an extent), you'd make them happier.
e)"I love thm a lot from within ....but then why do I act so mean with them?"
--No that is not being mean. That is being yourself. If you change and don't show yourself to them, that'd be mean.
f)"I listen to evryone just don't talk enough"
--I've seen the other Vicky too and I like listening to him! :P :)
This "I don't know...as u wish!" thing happens so regularly...it's like my ultimate stock answer to any question.And this is what makes me feel i'm so indecisive...which i really am!
May be. But remember that if you do force your authority on them (To an extent), you'd make them happier.
i too think tht it'll help in getting more closer to the already close-ones, letting thm peek into my 'real' self more closely.
I've seen the other Vicky too and I like listening to him!
yeah! i too like tht vicky...but it seldom comes out.....n tht too when a true soulmate is around!:)
Indecisive people have a lot of fun too! They can leave others to break their own heads and sit comfortably watching the show! ;) :P
N yes, you will definitely make your loved ones/best friends happier if you let them peek into these uncertainties. I can say that through experience. :)
And the last statement made me grin sheepishly! :D :P
:D
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